I've previously posted on here explaining my dad has had 4 cancers( bowel, lung, liver and lastly pancreatic) he has had a whipple op just over 18months ago and recovered well after chemo, a small glitch last year when a small tumour was found by ribs but he was given a short blast of radiotherapy and all was good apart from pain, fast forward and it'll be 2weeks he had results of PET scan, it's back and in stomach and lungs, without chemo we are talking weeks, with it a year tops. He had his first dose mid week and he's now having pain in his chest area( not heart attack pain etc just pain) it's a different chemo from the last time( two drips) I don't know what to do to help, is this chemo normally like this? He won't allow me to call the nurse as he's scared he will go into hospital, anyone been through similar? It's awful watching your loved one who is so strong break down and cry, is the chemo worth this? I don't want him to die but I don't want him in pain. Thank you all for your time