Hi. This is the first time I've posted anything like this before, so please bear with me! My dad has been unwell for about 18 months. He was taken into ICU last June and we were told to expect the worse. The following day we were told he had multiple myeloma and a heart condition he had been born with (but had laid dormant for the first 60 years of his life). He made it out of ICU (thankfully ) however we were told he had 6-12months to live. He's endured 8 rounds of chemo and remained positive throughout that he wanted to enjoy the time left he had left and spend as much time as possible with my mum, me and my sister and his 2 grandchildren. He's been back in hospital recently for a further 3 weeks (obviously due to covid, he was alone again). Since he has come out again his attitude and outlook has changed. He's miserable most of the time. Due to the heart condition he has very restricted mobility so is unable to go out without support. He doesn't want to go out or see anyone. I suggested counselling but he doesn't want it. I feel absolutely helpless and pretty useless. I don't know what to do to help him. Does anyone have any suggestions please? Thank you
