Im not sure about the swelling but I know that mottling of the skin and cold.really cold hands and feet are signs that death is very near. So sorry for your troubles.

Thanks for reply.his hands / feet still warm but definite swelling.He is so ill now wish his body would just say that's enough now 

I'm so sorry for your loss Mitsu.

I'm sure our community will offer their support and kind words to you soon but I just wanted you to know our thoughts are with you at this time.

Kind regards,

Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

Hi Mitsui,

I am so sorry to hear this sad news about your Dad. My sincere sympathy to you and your family.

It doesn't matter how well prepared you think you are, it still comes as a terrible shock at the end.

You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

I'm sorry, it is so hard to go through, but you were there for him x