Is there anything that can be done?

My best friend has cancer. He told me they stopped treating it 3 weeks ago, and he's going to die from it. He's done nothing wrong and he doesn't deserve to die. He's done lots for the community. He raises money for charity, and is nice to everyone, even if they aren't nice to him.

He really doesn't deserve to die, and I'm scared of losing him. He's always been there for me, now i feel helpless. I wish i could do more to help him. Is there any way i could help him? Even the doctors have lost hope. But I won't. I want to help him. Too many people in my family have died from cancer. He is my best friend. I don't want him to die. Is there any way i can help?

  • Hi there ...

    Bless ya ... and so so sorry your going through this heartbraking time at the moment... knowing wer loosing those we love is one of the hardest things we do in life ...

    Yes you can help him .. you can hold his hand on his last journey .. don't think of the future, then it feels overwhelming... live in the day ... every day you have him, make a little memory to keep .. doesn't have to be big .. just listen to music .. look at photos ... bet there's memories you already have that will make you both smile ... ask if he wants to do something still .. or go somewhere .. or see someone .. 

    If you can live in the day, and know you won't let a day go by, without meaning ... then you'll not waste any time you both have left together .. you can cry every day till then .. or fill it with love and when you look back, you'll be glad you found that courage ... sending you a vertual hug.... Chrissie x