Hi

Sorry to hear about your mum

My situation is v similar, give 2 years or less. BC with mets to liver, ribs, spine  femur  hips, pelvis and skull. Had palbo which lasted 1.5 years, then destabilised with spread to my sternum, liver now clear. In my liver. 

Was moved to Capecitabine which stabilised me, for eight months and markers now going significantly up, so back to square 1  but still here :). 2.5 years later.  Speak to your mums onco and make sure he discusses the options. There are some out there that are considered oral chemo that provides a good quality of life. Unfortunately some will work, some will. Different people respond better to certain treatments.

I am at the stage that additional pet and and CT scans to back up the bloodwork. My onco seems confident that there are treatments that keep us going for a while, but aware that the options are not limitless. So I find out Wednesday what the course of action will be and hope it works or try something else, 

I am hoping that the new drug enhertu, gets approved in the UK.

If you feel that there is no consistency or your not getting the answers you need, then revert to your trusted oncologist who can give your mum the true facts. 

It is scary, but find out the answers to the scary questions and I hope that you get the information you need. Sometimes treatments don't work, but others can

Thinking of you and here to chat more X