Hi my dad has been in hospital for 8 weeks with prostate cancer which has mestitized and spread to his bones and bladder I've not seen him as I live in England and he lives in Southern Ireland and although I'm in phone contact every day he's having radium every day for 5 days and then they sending him back home with palliative care package my dilemma is that I've booked to go tomorrow and my aunts telling me not to and are retired nurses I fear if I don't go I'll never see him again and if I do I'll risk infection I'm willing to self quarrentine when I get back so I suppose my question is does he have much time left for me to rescheduale my trip a few weeks as I'm being advised or take my chances ?