Hello.  I am very sorry to hear of the situation you have described with your grandad.  I can only draw from my personal experience of losing my partner to cancer of unknown primary which had spread to his liver, but I think it is very likely your grandad is now in the final stage of his illness  My partner (who was also very resistant to medical intervention) survived just 3 weeks from becoming jaundiced. My view is that medical/nursing  help must now be sought either with or without your grandad,s permission.  He is most likely to become very confused as his jaundice affects his brain, and there is the welfare of his wife to consider also.  He will become very weak and will need to spend progressively more time in bed as his body starts to shut down.  He may be able to stay at home if that is his wish, but he will need to be nursed.  The issue will have to be forced by either contacting his GP or ringing 111.  Your Grandad has done extraordinarily well to carry on thus far and although it doesn't feel like it now is likely to feel relieved when help has been obtained.  Sennding you my very best wishes.

Hi thank you for your reply. We are always there there is always a family member at the house and social workers are involved for the care of our nan at the moment as this is a concern for us. We have tried to get the treatment but while he says no they will not intervene we have tried to force it and the Drs will not even send anyone around while he refuses the care. Hopefully he will seek the help and we will keep pushing. Thanks for letting me know your experience it was very helpful.