Guilt

Hi, a lot of posts I have read concerning a dying brother. My Brother intially had lung cancer diagnosed 6 Months ago and sadly last November was told he had aggressive brain cancer. He is living whatever time is left with me. As I sit here at nighttime feeling guilty for me being here healthy watching your 55 year old non smoking walking up to 14 miles per day brother who does not eat and only takes sips of water now looks like a zombie. My point is that living with a dying person at home makes me feel guilt ridden

  • Hello Rainbowquest

    I'm so sorry to hear about your brother. It's incredibly difficult to watch someone that you love go through this kind of experience and what you're feeling isn't uncommon. It's natural to feel all sorts of emotions including guilt, anger, blame and sadness. 

    Do you have any kind of nursing support helping you with caring for your brother? If so do speak to the team about how you're feeling. They are there for you as well. 

    If you'd rather speak to one of our nurses in confidence for some support then you're welcome to call them. They are available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    The forum is also here for you to post on as well. Be it to chat to others, ask questions or offload how you're feeling. 

    Keep in touch. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator