My beautiful mum died 3 days ago at the age of 57.
4 weeks ago my mum.was told she had lung cancer that. Ay have spread to the liver
After her biopsy they diagnosed my mum with stage 4 lung cancer it was in her liver her lymph nodes and effusion.
We had another 10 days to wait until the prognosis.
During that time my mum became very breathless and had a Sharpe pain in her back. On the 28th Aug my mum felt very unwell so we went in an ambulance to the hospital. They gave my mum morphine, and oxygen she perked up a little. The following day they put a chest drain in the drain the fluid from her lungs which gave her some relief.
After 24 hours the drain stopped working and my mum was left with the drain in whilst it wasnt working. We had many visits from drs , trays ultrasound. They us that they would flush the tube and it will continue to work. On the sunday my mum.was still in hospital but perked up had a laugh and we saw hope at the other end even upon the monday sat in bed laughing and even took a trip outside!
At 6am tuesday morning my mum died!
No one told us she was dieing no one told us she was on paliative care and no one told us that we would never get to say good bye.
We are absolutely devastated and feel extremely cheated.
I have so much anger in me and I have no where to Express it.
I cant believe what an awful disease cancer it!