Just a few short weeks ago we found out my wonderful mum had lung cancer. Following her diagnosis we then found out it was in her stomach, kidneys, bones, and brain.
We are all absolutely heartbroken as she has always been the one with more energy than any of us.
Treatment wasn't available as she had it in so many areas and over the last week she has gone downhill.
The dr came out yesterday as she has been very sleepy and given her weeks to live. I wasn't there but what does this mean??? Originally they said months, but make the most of the coming weeks, now they have said weeks. I just want to know what to expect.
I really am not ready to lose my beautiful mum, it's come from nowhere and just 3 months ago she was running around after everyone and now practically bed bound.
My dad is broken and wouldnt accept it, but I think after the Dr coming out yesterday he's now coming to terms with it. I'm so worried about him and how he is going to cope. They have been each others lives for 54 years and know no different.
This is something we will never ever understand, just why my mum?
She's never smoked, doesn't drink and always eaten well.
Selfishly you never think anything like this will happen to you and now living a nightmare.
I have 2 small children and really struggling as I am trying not to get upset in front of them, however I have a wonderful husband who is always there for us all.
I just never thought I'd lose my mum this way. Thankfully she is in no pain at the moment, and pain relief has already been left at her house just in case.