My grandad has been diagnosed with stomach cancer. He is 81 and they have said that they cannot operate or treat as it will kill him. He is currenly undergoing daily blood transfusions too as they also believe he has leukaemia. I don't know how I feel as the doctors gave him months to live last week, then a different doctor said weeks yesterday. I have asked for the doctors to advise on the grade so I can get a better understanding of how best to try and deal with it. I wouldn't say that I'm upset, I think I am more angry as I feel that no news is ever clear and we are being told different things. The doctor today has said that they will try and make him comfortable to go home.
How do you deal with this? any advice is welcome!