I need advice...

I need advice, I hope somebody can relate (although I hate the fact that there are others who may have been in my position) my dad was diagnosed with terminal small cell lung cancer in January, we were told he would live for 6 months with chemo. The cancer is also in his liver, bones and in his brain. We were told two weeks ago there is nothing more that can be done and his prognosis was ‘short weeks’ for about three weeks now he has been so tired, he sleeps for the majority of the day, he barely eats and he is so terribly confused to the point he doesn’t even know what day it is. This is heartbreaking and I was wondering if anybody had been in this position before? How long may we be looking at?

  • Thank you Hun, I feel so lost right now I dont know what to do with myself, I’m just so grateful she’s out of pain :(

     

    hows your dad? Has today been a good day or a bad day? If you want to talk on Instagram or something I’m completely open to it! As horrible as the situation is talking to someone who understands is so important 

     

    lots of love xxxx

  • I am so sorry for the late response, how are you finding things? Dad was moved the the hospice on Thursday he started to go downhill last Sunday. He is in a bad way I think we are very close to the end now. He is is so agitated and restless because I think he is frightened to go to sleep, but he can not communicate with us anymore it is soul destroying. I want him to be at peace xx