hi I’m new to this.

my dads just been diagnosed with terminal cancer he had bladder cancer 8 months ago which was removed fully with a stoma and now the cancer is back bigger and more aggressive behind the muscle wall between the rectum, the consultant has said he will not operate and we are looking at 6-9 months just like that? (Is it normal to want a a second opinion?? Should I just take 1 mans word for this? Yes I know 50% is disableif and 50% angry but I don’t understand how it’s come to this so fast) anyway had anybody done the a ONCOLOGIA DNA/rna test privately and got any luck with it? They are recommending 10 sessions of radiotherapy for palletive care (I have hope this will shrink and delay the tumor... any thoughts?) and if he is fit enough chemo again. But again nothing to change the time line? I’m angry upset and every emotion and want to make sure im

not missing a trick in helping him as much as I can. My dads currently fine pain in the pelvic area but managing fine with pain reflow I don’t understand how he may be dead in a matter of months when he seams okay . Life’s so *** cruel mind my french. I’m in my 20’s he’s in his 60’s I’ve just had a baby. 

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