Hi sometimes can stop it growing rather than making it smaller it doesn't always work sorry I can't be of more help it can depend on the C treatment there are a lot of different types some stronger than others.

Billy 

Thanks for your reply Billy, it’s just hard isn’t it, the not knowing. All I need to focus on is the here and now, and at the moment my mum is doing well. She is eating and is so much better since the chemo stopped so I’m just going to be there to do the things she wants to do and enjoy our time together xxx

Thanks again for your reply xxx Helen

Hi ya ...

You know we have to weigh up which way to go .. chemo may give your mum a little longer, but it's really harsh on the body .. and l can quite understand if she wants quality over quantity... now she's feeling better, make as much of whatever time she gets ... you can still make lots of good memories ... try not to look ahead ... live in the day .. and find out if theres something she still wants to do ... 

Share these times and say all what's in your heart ... it's o.k to admit your both scared .. but by making the most of what you have now... you will one day be pleased you did ... since my cancer diagnosis, that's how I live each day ... and two fingers up to cancer ... and you will even have smiles and laughter along the way .. memories are pictures the heart takes ... Chrissie

Hi Chrissie, you are so right, that is what I intend to do, we have spoken about the things she wants to do and we are going to make sure she gets to do all of those things. She is so much happier now than when she was on the chemo, the difference is amazing! I’m going to take each day at a time and cherish the time I have got with my precious mum. Thanks again for taking the time to reply. Take care xxx Helen xxx

Hi ...

I think your mum will be really proud of you ... too many let this precious time go when in life none of us know what tomorrow brings ... l have 2 son's, and no daughters but if I'd been blessed to have had one, I'd have loved one just like you ...

My family have been right by my side, and let me take control of my journey .... something cancer wants to take away from us ... I'm all for people being able to do whatever they want ... but to have those we love just hold our hands is priceless.... Chrissie xx

Thanks Chrissie, I have such a close relationship with my mum, she’s my soulmate, my best friend and I know she is proud of me and always will be. I’m so proud to call her my mum, she is being so brave about it all. I will be there for her throughout this journey and support her in any decision she makes and be there for her every step of the way. Thank you so much for your kind words, they mean a lot xxx

Hello,

so sorry to hear about your mum. I am in a similar situation and have a young family. Chemo is tough. Please ask for a referral to see an oncologist who offers immunotherapy options, as this may be more comfortable treatment for your mum. Also, a second opinion to identify the primary would be useful too. There is always hope.

All good wishes,

karen