Hi there ...

So so sorry your going through this heartbraking time at the moment....  your not alone ... there's lots here that will hold your hand ... and you can vent, or chat or whatever you need to do, and we understand what your going through ... cancer sucks... and doesn't care who it touches ... young , old , fit, nothing is free from it ... it's crule and heartless ...

Have you any siblings or other family for support ... and try Marie Currie,  go on their home page .. they give support to terminal patients and their families. .. try and get some help in place before he comes home ...

He is the same age as my oldest son ... bless ya ... if you need a buddy , just let me know and I'll private message you, l can't take it away, but l can listen ... there's lots loosing a loved one at the mo .. if you look through other threads , you can reply to them ... or hopefully, they will pick this up ...

Sending you a big vertual hug... Chrissie