Dad been told he got weeks to go.

I dunno where to begin at first he had a kidney transplant beginning of 2018.then in November he was admitted to an icu with the doctors saying it meneigitis. But was only told on thursday this week that he has lymphoma and only has weeks. Im so angry towards the nhs didn't do a full body scan in November they could of treated him. But the doctors say if they treat him now it more likely it will kill him quicker. How come my dad who only 58 years who been in hospital for 7 weeks and nothing was done to prevent this. Im so scared of loosing my dad and most of all is how long will my mother last without her husband. I wish it wasnt real but a horrible nightmare

  • Hi abioshi my husband is the same only weeks left he is 51 my heart is heart broken i dont know how am going to cope without him we got told 3 months ago after hubby having kidney removed jan18 that it had returned and aggressive all over his body so am nursing him just now trying to make each day count.

     

                                   theresa