October 1st my father in law was told he had prostate cancer which had spread to his lungs and bones he has been given 4 to 6 weeks as I lost my own dad to cancer many years ago it is like living in a nightmare as so many of the things that are happening to him also happened to my dad. I am continually upset and cry at the slightest thing. I am trying to be strong for the sake of my husband but feel that I am failing miserably.