Hello,
I am in a predicament and really need some outside perspective. I am due to get married at the end of this month, everything is in place and paid for, the dress is altered and we're all set. On the weekend I found out my mum has weeks to live and may not make it for the wedding, but obviously no one can tell us anything for certain.
After lots of tears and lengthy chats with my fiancé we decided cancelling was not an option and we want to stick with the date we set over a year ago to give mum something to fight for and work towards as we understand this may be the last thing she does. We have agreed that if she worsens as time goes on that we will have a mock ceremony for her in her home so she can see us in all our finery, but we still really want to get married at the location and in the way that we have been planning for over a year and a half. Although she's nearing the end of her life I still don't know if she passed before our official wedding if I would be really into the day, but we all agreed to keep the date and see how she gets on.
She is hoping to be able to attend the ceremony in 3 weeks and I just hope she will be, does anyone have any advice please?
