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Hello - thank you for letting me join.

My sister in law is in final stages of lung cancer. She has been in a hospice but has been allowed home.  She can't manage the stairs anymore, so is sleeping downstairs in a hospital bed. Over the past day or two she started coughing up red blood. Is this a progression of cancer?  She lives in Sheffield - I am in Scotland. I'm going to see her this coming weekend. I feel I need to prepare myself somehow and I'm not sure how or what to prepare for? Sorry if this seems silly of me, but I'm just not sure what to say/do.  Thanks for listening.

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    Hello Rosie and sorry about your sister in law and the reason you find yourself here. I lost my husband in 2016 after a 6 month battle with lung cancer. He coughed up blood from just after diagnosis which got progressively worse in the last few weeks when he would choke and cough up blood which then made him vomit. He had a horrible time but I did manage to care for him at home until the end of his journey which was what he wanted. I am sure it is not silly of you to be worried about what to say or do. I think that when you see your sister in law just go with how you feel and as poorly as she is I am sure that she will just be pleased to have you visit her. Sending my best wishes. Lynne.
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    [@Rosie1955]‍ Hi there! I'm so sorry for what your family is experiencing. Unfortunately, it sounds like your sister-in-law is in the end stages. I lost my dad 9 months ago to lung cancer but by the grace of God he never coughed up blood. When you go to visit your loved one, you can do and say anything to make her comfortable. Remind her of how much she is loved. If she wants, play her favorite music or some sort of relaxing music. You can talk about the most fond memories you've shared over the years, etc. but don't force her to talk if she seems to be in any pain or discomfort. Pray over her! All the best to you and your family. 

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