I’m not sure what’s next ??

I posted a few days ago regarding my dad .

we were told last Tuesday  that it would be a few hours and he would slip away , that we should not go to sleep and be with him . 

 

We are now on day 9 of being told the same .

I feel bad I am beyond exhausted , my mum wanted my dad to stay at home but she is leaning on me so much to take care of everything I’m struggling and I don’t know how to tell her she needs to help as well . I know I’m probably snappy from being tired .

has anyone got any advice ?? 

 

Thanks Lynne x

 

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    Hi Lynne,

    I am so sorry to hear of your dad's passing and offer my sincere sympathy. I am sure that you were glad that you were able to stick it out to the end, difficult though it was.

    Do you have other family and friends to support you? It sounds as if you may still find your mum leaning on you, now that she is on her own. Can you introduce her to some clubs where she would meet other people and begin to forge a life of her own?

    We are always here for you both.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx