Lung cancer !! Need someone's advice

Hi , my dad suffered throat cancer in 2008 , had many health problems since then . Last year they thought my dad had lung cancer he had top lobe of his right lung off which made him have a cardiac arrest. Which left him in a coma for a month. Since then we found out it isn't cancer. Now he is peg feed all his medication goes through the peg ..... My dad has had any scans now to where he has a live tumour in his right lung they can't do a biosopy as he is to weak to operate he can't have treatment he's to weak it will kill him .... so they can't do anything my dad's 56 I'm am no where near ready to lose him and I don't no where to turn to to try and understand and come to terms with this.  If someone expericeing the same thing could reply thank u .

  • Hi First thing you are not alone, my husband has lung cancer too and its termial. We don't know how long we've got as a family but you have to take it one day at a time and try and be positve. Remember the memories you have shared, remember he love you and he's proud of you. When you need to be sad, cry. When you need to be happy, be happy and laugh, if you want to scream, well do that too. No one is truely ready to lose anyone whether it be a parent or a husband. Im sending hugs to you and your family x