My mum got fully diagnosed with terminal lung cancer last wed while she waz at christies having some radiotherapy to her broken arm. Its spread to lymph glands in chest and arm that we kniw of were still awaiting results from a chest and abdomen scan from 3 week ago. Last wed the oncologist gave her 3-12 month and said she would be totally shocked if she was to still see her in 1 year. Over the weekend i think it sunk in to mum what was happening as all she has done is cry saying she dont want die and is scared of it. Shes become very withdrawn just looking at walls and not speaking ssying she knows shes gettin worse each day with her breathing and pain, i just dont know if shes giving up in her own little way . Any advice from people who have seen loved ones giving up on how they reacted or what they felt x it would be truely appreciated