Really confused

a couple of months ago my grandad was in hospital with a chest infection but they found a lump in between his heart and lung. Now my mum has told me he's got between 2-8 weeks to live and my  nan said they are trying to build up his stregnth So he could have a biopsy (he's been too ill for one)

theyve offered him no treatment just a daily nurse and morphine. 

I thought cancer was only diagnosed with a biopsy

i don't know if I should believe my Nan, if they thought he could be healed wouldn't they be treating him 

and to make matters worse he doesn't want anyone to know a Thing. My mum and Nan told me in secret. 

I'm so confused an my heart is breaking 

  • Hi Sammie Im really sorry to hear about whats happening to your grand dad. Im not a medical experts but here is what I understand about your grandads case. The medical team had probably suspected a case of cancer with the lump that they discovered. Now whether that is treatable or not is still yet to be determined and the biopsy is the first step to properly identify the type of cancer cells your grandfather have. That is an important factor to consider for chemotherapy. The terminal prognosis is probably the time limit that your grandfather have for him to have a proper treatment else his health will probably deteriorates if he dont receive a treatment soon. Basically they are running against the clock. Once he is fit enough and the biopsy obtained a results then the doctors could come up with appropriate treatment... Its sounds like the medical team is not giving up on your grandpa but, as you said, your grandad is already struggling for his health and that makes it harder for the doctors to follow through.
  • The not-knowing and the waiting is breaking your heart - I feel for you. Poor grandad = and you must be strong for him and grandma. I am sure that behind the scenes the doctors and nurses are planning treatments and what to do. This is a time of waiting and getting to know how your grandad feels about it all = and grandma as well

    Be strong = life has an ability to dismayy = but also surprise

    anything is possible with cancer

    Brighteyes