Dad been diagnosed steroids as end of life treatment to make him more comfortable. He can only take for four weeks. After one day of them he has perked up and is eating. I just dread him dipping again after four weeks.
I'm really sorry to hear about your dad's diagnosis but I'm glad he has been given something to make him more comfortable. It must be so tough knowing that his change in mood and appetite is only temporary and can completely understand why you are not looking forward to when the steriods come to an end in four weeks time but try to concentrate on the present if you can and make the most of time you now have with your dad. Enjoy the good days and make happy memories that you can cherish forever.
Many of our members will know how you're feeling right now having gone through similar situations with their friends and loved ones and I'm sure they will post soon to offer their support and share their experiences with you.
Please let us know how things go with your dad and remember that we're here for you if you need us.
Thankyou. It is so nice to have this support. I put on a happy face in front of dad but when im home i cant sleep and i find it hard to concentrate in work.
You're welcome Jake :) And remember that's what we're here for, don't ever forget that.
I know you want to appear strong for your dad but it may help to let your dad know how you feel. I'm sure he's just as scared as you are about what is going to happen and maybe by sharing your thoughts and feelings you can both support each other through this difficult time.
I'm sorry you're finding it difficult to sleep and not able to concentrate at work. Have you spoken to your doctor about how you're not sleeping at the moment? They may be able to help. Also, maybe you could speak to your work about your dad's situation? They may be able to accomodate you so you work less days or have some time off work if you feel like you need it. Make sure you take time to look after yourself so you can be there for your dad when he needs you the most.
Hi yes i dont want to take sleeping tabs because im scared i get call during night. I spoke to work and theyve been great but im still doing full time and feeling the strain. Will speak to them next week and try get some time. Its all just so difficult. X
Hi Jake I'm sorry to hear about your Dad cancer is such a devastating disease and I hope the steroids can help give you more time with him. How is your Dad now?
We are in a similar situation with my mother in law , she was diagnosed a few days ago but the cancer has already spread and the only option is to try steroids. They also seem to be giving her an appetite and are making her a little more alert however they are reviewing this on Monday so we are hoping we still have time with her.
Having to concentrate on work with everything else going on and no sleep must be difficult did you manage to get any time off?
Hi arianne , got couple of days off there and spent some time with dad. Hes same eating more and has wee bursts of energy and said pain much better. Hes going onto single dose next week and then hell have to stop. Im just dreading what lies ahead. Ull be the same, its just horrible isnt it x
I'm glad you managed to get some time off to spend with you Dad and he had picked up even if it is for a short while.It will give him comfort to have spent some time with you whilst he is feeling a bit better. I hope when he goes down to single dose it doesn't affect him too much. They are tapering away my mother in law's steroids now , we're not getting much information from the doctors but they don't seem to be working anymore. I hope your doing ok and your Dad is as comfortable as he can be x
Hi nice to hear from you. Dad is down to single dose and is struggling already. Said tonight he has no energy. Hes still eating. Just taling day at a time. I hope your mother in law is comfortable too. Its just such a horrible time isnt it. You just dont want to see them suffer. Keep in touch, it definitely helps to talk xx
Hi Jake I'm sorry to hear your Dad's struggling but good that he is still eating hopefully he will pick up again. It is a horrible time my mother in law passed away today but I'm glad she is at peace still a bit shocked it's just all been too fast feel like she has been ripped away. I hope you and your Dad have more time to spend together to make more memories. It definitely helps to talk and as awful as it sounds to know your not the only one going through it. Hope your Dad is better today x
Im so sorry arriane. I know what you mean about her being at peace. Just remember she will always be around you and shell remember all the things you done for her. I can only imagine how you feel. Dad had bad day today. Always here xx
