Fading Away

Hi...My is Fernando I am New to your Beautiful Group..My mom has Cancer she has Ovarian cancer.I see my mom everyday,she lives with me.My 2 sister's helps her a lot everyday to watch for her,bathe her,change her,change her.I do my best to help her but not what my sister's do,I am here for Support in whatever I can do.I sometimes help my mom off of her bed so she can use the bathroom when my sisters are busy.I work everyday from 7:00am-4:00pm.It hurts me to see my Dear Beautiful Momma like this. Sometimes when I am off to work I would cry my butt off on my way to work because I see her like this.We would never believe Our Mom would be like this with Cancer my would Always Always eat Healthy foods everyday and years later this happens.I strongly it's the coffee that she would drink every morning that had done this to her.Now my Beautiful Momma lays in bed 70% of the time the only time that she gets up is when she eats & uses the bathroom & maybe mmmmmaybe she watches a little bit of tv. I'm planning on moving to South Portland Maine in the middle of July of 2016 to start my Life over maybe hopefully I will find a job & an apt & just maybe I will meet someone plus meet new friends.I was planning on driving to South Portland Maine. & hopefully I can find a good job out there. 

  • Welcome to the forum Fernando.

    I'm really sorry to hear about your mom. It's always tough to see someone you love affected by cancer and even though you may not be able to do everything your sisters do I think you're doing a really great job of supporting her and I'm sure she appreciates everything you are doing and have done for her already.

    Many of our members have gone through the same situation and no doubt they will reply soon to offer their support and share their experiences with you.

    We are here for you if you need us.

    Best Wishes, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator