I live 4 hours away and my brother is about to pass from cancer of the stomach, had a call from mum to say she feels it won't be long, he is just laying there his eyes glazed over staring into space, his breathing is becoming shallow, not drank or eaten for days and his voice is so quiet she can barely hear what he is trying to say.
I so want to get there, to be with them when it happens, just the three of us as it always was growing up, we lost dad at a very early age. I'm so scared of her being alone when he does pass, that's her baby after all.
I'm not sure of the signs of the last hours? I have spent time with him but I feel so guilty that I couldn't stay longer but I still have bills to pay, although I made here promise to call as soon as she thought the time was near, and she has.
Please say a little prayer I will make it in time x
