Tonim, I am so sorry, I know how it feels my husband passed away 29th October and it hurts so much.  Xxxxx

Oh my dear Toni, I can't tell you how very sad I am to hear that news. Your darling hubby did not deserve what he has been through or to pass away at such a young age - this disease is so very very hard to cope with, for so many lovely people.

I hope your family are with you and I know you will all be distraught.  I hope it will be a little comfort to know that others are thinking of you all at such a difficult time.  Wish I could hug you tightly!

Much love to you sweetheart x

Oh my goodness I am so so sorry I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling. I hope he didn't suffer. Hugs and prayers are with your. I hope you have a strong daily around you at this difficult time xxxxx

Dear Toni, I just cannot believe you have lost your husband so quickly - such devastating news. I know there is nothing I can say that will make this better but please know that I am thinking of you and your family at this very sad time. xx

So very sorry to hear the news of your lovely hubbie, my thoughts are with you and your family. Take care of yourselves. Sue xx

Hi tonim,

We are all so sorry about your hubbie.

We send you our condolences at this very sad time.

Best wishes from all of us at Cancer Chat,

Jane

Thank you very much for coming on and telling us

I hope it was as easy and painless as possible and that you were able to be with him - I'm sure he drew great comfort from your support and you should be proud of yourself for all that you did to help and comfort him.

I think many of us know what a desperate and crazy time it is immediately afterwards, how your mind is in a whirl and the tidal wave of emotions that just engulf you and at the same time how many things there are to do and arrange at a time that you're feeling so ...really looking for the word here...battered?

The only thing I'd say is keep talking tell everybody and anybody about it all, it helps it really does and stay with us on here - we're here for you 

Toni,

I'm so sorry to hear your terrible news.
Thinking of you and your family.

Best wishes
Dave
 

My condolences on your loss, Tonim. Such devastating news for you  and the family.  Whilst nothing I can say will take away your pain you can see from the other posts that the forum is here for you any time you need to talk.  A year ago in early January I was in the same position in that my hubby died from cancer so know a little of what you face.  Take strength from those around you and keep looking after yourself too.Sending virtual hugs at this sad time. Jules x