I am struggling to cope with my dad's recent diagnosis. He has been told he has cancer of the bladder which is a rare form and can't be treated with chemo. They have stated that he would need a huge operation to remove it and the operation itself a poses huge risks. He's 74, and gone from being a giant of a man to a frail fragile man loosing weight. It's destroying me inside, I'm a only child and my mums not in the best of health. I feel scared when I know I need to be strong. He can't bring himself to talk about any of it. I don't know how long he has and just wish I could do something to make the whole situation better. I bottle my emotions up and feel alone. .
