I just wondered if anyone could help me...My Mum suffered a stroke in July which was caused by a brain tumour. Following Surgery we were told last week that they are unable to offer her any treatment because she is completely immobile and the next step is to get her into a nursing facility for her final few weeks. Mum is totally at peace with everything and almost relieved that all her suffering since July will soon be over. She even decided herself a short time ago that she didn't want to endure the treatment if all it would do is buy her a short amount of time, time which she would've have been very poorly. What I'm struggling with is people outside of the family who have known her a very long time seem to take offence or question when we say about visiting her. She has a lot of friends and it's difficult to juggle the time so everyone can see her, whilst trying to hold on to the precious alone time that we need with her and which she has repeatedly said she wants with us (Myself, My Brother and My Son). Can anyone help or advise the best way to handle this. I'm struggling to get my head around the fact that I'm going to lose my Mum, whilst trying to keep other people happy and almost support them, when really it is myself, my Brother and my Son which need all the support at the moment I hope I'm not coming across as unkind or unfair, just really struggling with everything xxx
