HELP AND ADVICE AND SUPPORT

My sister was diagnosed last year stage 4 NSCLC , one brain met , they remoed th emet and shrink hte tumour on the lung a few month ago she had a spinal compression of which they shrunk but they bekivee is now growing, last few months her legs have become weaker and weaker she cantrerallywalk or feel them  and they do not seem to know why, now two weeks  ago she was rushed to hospital  with a perforated bowel and had emergency surgery , now she has a bag , but her legs are worse, she is stil in hospital as had four days in intensive care, she is so strong and brave, its heartbreking, we are stil waiitng for answers but she said that she wil need help whgen she ocmes hmne, not sure what that menans and also she needds to sleep down stairs, she also has  mottled legs and her ears look a tinge of blue, is she getting ready to pass ?? Im so sad and so proud of her courage but its so cruel  to see all this , also to add the oncologist told us yesterdaythat her t12 tumor is moving fast and ready to explode?? 

what does that mean 

thank you 

  • Hi anthem

    Thank you for posting. It must be stressful to see your sister so ill.

    Our nurses could help answer the questions you have asked here.

    You can call the team on freephone: 0808 800 4040 from Monday to Friday, 9am to 5pm.

    Please do come to chat anytime you feel the need. There are others here who know what it is like to have a loved one who is affected by cancer.

    Best wishes

    Jane