My poor darling sweet hubby was suffering from a painful arm for 2 weeks when he picked up a bag of clothing and his arm bone humerus snapped clean in half . He was taken to hospital where it was xrayed and it was found he had bone cancer.... He had a full CT scan and our world fell apart. He has extensive and large tumours in his Kidney, liver , pelvis and  lungs ... I know that we are all in for a horrible ride and that it is not curable but im at my wits end not knowing how im going to cope in giving him the best and most valuable support i can . As much as i can try to tell him gently that ultimately he isnt going to survive... i dont think he really understands that he will indeed die. He is only 51 and is currently in hospital awaiting repair of the arm bone.. We have 2 sons, a naive gentle 22 yr old who has completely

crumbled at this news and a little 10 yr old boy who we havnt told yet... He has a mild special needs and it will devastate him , so we have decided not to tell him that daddy is dying until he is actually dying.... He does know that daddy is seriously ill in hospital........ please can someone help and advise me. Im so frightened and scared x