My Dad's cancer journey

Hi, my dad has been diagnosed with liver cancer which has spread to his pancreas.  He is 80 years old and has been in and out of hospital on many occasions over the last 4 years. Many, many tests including scans,  xrays and he had life saving surgery about 18months ago, where his bowel had become detached. 

I'm just so bloody angry that this wasn't found before, as I said he's had so many different tests, why wasn't this found?

My heart is breaking for my dad, I'm just so mad that this wasn't found before. I live with bi polar,anxiety disorders etc and I feel like I'm on the very edge. I know there must be people out there with similar situations. 

I show strength and still have a laugh with my dad but inside I'm broken. I just need some tips on how to cope.

Thank you for reading this.

  • Welcome to the Cancer Chat community J.G although I'm very sorry to hear your dad has been diagnosed with liver cancer that has spread to his pancreas.

    With your dad being in and out of hospital a lot over the last 4 years, it's completely understandable and natural to be feeling angry about this not being picked up sooner, as I'm sure a lot of our members who have been in a similar situation with their loved ones would agree, so you are not alone J.G, and I'm sure it won't be long until some of them stop by to offer you their support and advice.

    If you'd like to speak to one of our cancer nurses about this, they're available on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m. They're very insightful and will do all they can to support you and provide you with tips on how to cope with your dad's diagnosis.

    This must be such a difficult time for you both J.G, but I hope you can take some strength from knowing that we are here for you and will do all we can to support you at this very challenging time.

    Best wishes to you both,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator