Hi MFD,

Welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm so sorry to hear of the situation with your brother and that the nurses are struggling to get the pain under control. This must be a lot for you to process and deal with.

I can understand it must be really difficult and you must be experiencing a range of emotions. The anger can be a natural response, but do of course try to be kind to yourself as well - it sounds like you are supporting him and doing what you can so try not to be too hard on yourself. I know this can be easier said than done.

I hope that this forum can be of some small help to you, even if it's just a case of writing things down. Hopefully you'll get some more replies to your post soon, but otherwise do have a browse of the forum and other discussions and people to connect with, if this is something that would be helpful for you.

Wishing you all the best,

Ben
Cancer Chat Moderator