Hello Jloubs, 

It's so sad what is happening to your dad, that the tumour in his abdomen is large and untreatable and that the chemo has failed. What devastating news - you must still be in shock and it's hard not to cry and there is no right or wrong way to cope in a situation like this. I hope that you have a nice support network around you to help you get through each day. 

You are not alone though and I wanted you to know I mentioned your story only this morning to another member of our community rosierosebud who is very much going through the same - have a read of her thread 'Mum has stage 4 terminal stomach cancer' and don't hesitate to reply if you want to talk to someone else who is no doubt also very tearful at the moment and feeling like it's really difficult to cope or think ahead for the future.

We're thinking of you during this tough time and wanted you to know we are right here always if you need to talk at any time. 

Best wishes, 

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator