My oncologist says I have weeks to live please help

I have stage four non small lung cancer spread to bones abdomen pelvis and lymph node’s now on recent scan? Have fluid build up in stomach and both lungs, I have had taggrisso for nine months stopped working then combo chemo which didn’t work then third line chemo which put me in hospital for three weeks with septis and five blood clots! I am now on permanent oxygen and my oncologist said no more treatment as it’s too dangerous and I’m too weak? I am 45 with two young kids and am praying there is hope for me? Can anyone help? Had this happened to anyone? I’m asking for a second opinion as I need to try fight for my children! I’m so heartbroken and would just love a glimmer of hope please 

  • Hello Kyle09,

                         read your post and felt l could not turn away without a response acknowledging what an awful place you find yourself in. There is nothing l can do to help and could offer very little in the way of comfort save for what l learnt with my own battle with stage 4 cancer. 

    Don't look back, waste no time on remorse or regret, embrace every day as precious and use each one to the best of your ability, finish each day with a thought of happiness.

    l hope you are surrounded by those who love you and those that care for you,

                                                                                                                              be gentle with yourself,

                                                                                                                                                                       David