You're welcome mate, xx

Yes I understand how you worded the message when you was taking about him . I got that you love each other very much xx

We do Clare.  It took him a long time to realise that I did what I did out of Love, xx

It’s so good that he understands now and you can both still talk xx 

Yes it is.  Sometimes we have a good laugh and sometimes we both cry.......he keeps saying, "why you?  You are so good and kind, why you?"  But you know what Clare, I don't see the point in asking that question.  Life is sometimes unfair and that's the way it is........I guess I have accepted it better than he has, xx

Bless him it is unfair. You are a lovely person so nice to talk to . I rang my ex last year told him. We was crying. Then he is so unfair I thought you would come back to you one day. It’s been 20 years +  I felt like I had to tell him because I lost the baby with him xx

Oh mate, I am so sorry.  You mentioned the daughter that you lost.  There are no words are there?   But remember Clare, you will see your baby girl again, and I imagine that your ex was devastated........it's a sad situation, no doubt about it, xx 

Are you and your ex still in contact Clare? xx

That is very sad.  I have heard of this sort of thing before........how the loss of a child breaks some people apart.......and I guess it is something that you don't really recover from isn't it?  xx