Hi I’m new here. We just found out today that my grandad has terminal cancer. It started in his lung and has now moved to his liver. They’ve said around 3-5months. He went in on Monday with stomach pain and doctors thought it was his Gallbladder until they did scans today. I seen him Monday morning and he was fine, how can this happen?! I have a 4yr old asking where her great grandad is as we see him nearly every day before she goes to school! I’m in pieces. And so worried for my grandma as apart from my dad and uncle and the grandkids she has no one else. He is her world. He can’t get Chemo because of his heath, he has respiratory and heart problems. He’s sleeping lots and eating next to nothing, should I be worried? Do we have less time than what we’ve been told? How do you cope saying goodbye to someone you’ve been so close to all your life? I got engaged last year, he was so excited for our wedding, we haven’t even started planning it yet and now he probably won’t be here for it. I’ve only ever lost my grandma on my mum’s side but it was so sudden. This feels worse, because I know the end is coming, I know he’s dying and in pain. I don’t know why I’ve wrote all this I just needed to get everything off my chest!
