Evening all, I'm not someone who posts on forums but I just feel lost.
My Dad, 73, got rushed to hospital Nov '23. He ended up having to have emergency surgery for blood clots in his legs and during his many scans they discovered he had cancer which they have said is terminal. They believed it to be Adrenal Cancer and it had spread further to other parts of his body. In the past month of so, more lumps, which are paining him, have been coming up everywhere, on his head, face, neck, armpits...and he's gone downhill ever since. He's now on morphine and is so weak, dizzy and barely eating. I don't know what to do or how to help him. I keep thinking of different ideas to help his lumps like heat patches, hot water bottles, etc. His main pains are his back where his kidneys are and the back of his head which is the worst lump :(
My Dad has always been a strong man, always pottering around and never ill. To see him like this is scary as its my Dad. He's my rock. The one that'll always be there for me and knowing there's nothing I can do to help him is destroying me.
