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I was told a few month ago I way terminal at the age of 45. I have up to 2 years ( if I’m lucky) of life left . I have a 14 year old son and a 11 year old autistic daughter. I haven’t told them yet but I know I have to .

I can’t seem to find and counselling for them for when I do , I’m so worried about them not getting the right support . Surly they will need this kind of support and for after I’m gone . 

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    Dear Georgiewhite, 

    I’m so sorry to hear of your situation. As a teacher, I would suggest that you speak to the pastoral lead at school. They will want to be there to support your children throughout this journey and will be able to direct you to the right support. You can also ask them to keep in touch with you to see how they are coping. It may be that there is a staff member that your children get on with particularly well. If so, tell the school and  ask if they could be made aware of your situation and provide support.

    Thinking of you and hoping that you have many fun times to cherish with your children

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    Dear Georgiewhite, 

    I’m so sorry to hear of your situation. As a teacher, I would suggest that you speak to the pastoral lead at school. They will want to be there to support your children throughout this journey and will be able to direct you to the right support. You can also ask them to keep in touch with you to see how they are coping. It may be that there is a staff member that your children get on with particularly well. If so, tell the school and  ask if they could be made aware of your situation and provide support.

    Thinking of you and hoping that you have many fun times to cherish with your children

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