How do I know when his time is nearly up

My father has bowel cancer with liver and lung metastasis.  

He was gave a poor prognosis( 3-6 months to live 7 weeks ago )  and is receiving no treatment . Can someone help me to manage expectations. I know his time is limited and I have seen a massive decline in the last week , something new daily . He rests, sleeps a lot. His mobility has deteriorated so much so that he uses a wheelchair and after numerous near misses he now has a walking frame around the house. 

He is in no pain and takes morphine slow release medication to keep any pain at bay . 

Is anyone able to throw light on or had any experience of someone loved dying of this awful disease . When do I expect the worse ? Is he bearing the end , I have no idea what to expect and all I hear is everyone is different . I just want to be prepared for the worse 

  • Hello Keey17

    I'm sorry to hear about your Dad's diagnosis. things are undoubtedly difficult for you both right now. 

    I can see from your previous posts that your Dad moved in with you so that you can care for him. Do you have any kind of support from the local hospice/palliative care team or the district nurses? If not then it's certainly something to think about chatting with your Dad's GP about. They will be able to support you both and make sure that your Dad is as comfortable as possible over the coming weeks. 

    We do have some information on our website here about dying with cancer that you may find helpful but you're also most welcome to call our nurses and chat with them for some advice, information, and support if you think it may help. They're available Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    Keep in touch keey17 and let us know how you're getting on. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator