Hello Everyone 

I'm not sure quite how to put this.

I feel empty inside. I have just learned today that my children's mother has at most a few months left with us. She has been battling a stage 4 lung cancer Diagnosis for the last two years.For a time a while after all the aggressive chemotherapy and surgery things looked promising.But unfortunately after eliminating a number of tumours through out her body one tumour remains. And this one is going to take her life almost certainly.

over these last two years her body has been ravaged with all sorts of interventions. She hasn't the energy to battle anymore.In any case it won't make much difference to the out come. We have two children 20 years and 17 son and daughter. I as there father have no idea how I am going to prepare them for what is to come, our children losing their mother.

I feel it is best to be honest with them about there mother's condition. They so live in hope that somehow there Mum will pull through.

How do I do this? I am at a loss as to what to do next.

Any advice would be most welcome.

Bless you all

James