My ex husband has recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer. We have children together. He refuses to communicate with me. He has refused to communicate his medical diagnosis, his plans going forward for any treatment or life expectancy. I have offered to take the children to visit as much as possible, whenever they would like to go. Today he called without discussing with me the discussion he would have. I was having to listen from the hallway. He still won't tell them what is wrong with him. They have been living full time with me for nearly two months now and they know something is up. He gave them false hope in the conversation. He then also told them to delete any messages on their phone that he sends. I still have received no information about his condition. I can't even begin to go into all the issues but is there any way I can get help in requesting information about his condition as this affects the physical and emotional well-being of our children. I am at a loss as I understand all the data protection issues but I also am at a need to know point!