Dad has just passed with Glioblastoma GBM

My dad has recently passed away with stage 4 GBM. 
I know everyone's different, but we as a family have had a horrendous 6 months. More research into this dreadful illness is needed. 
My dad fell poorly last September, was going to the drs on a weekly basis to constantly be told he had health anxiety and to get a life. In April his symptoms came more apparent and we was referred to the stoke clinc, the following day after his first appointment he was sent for an MRI to them be advised he had a stage 4 GBM. 
15 days later day was taken for an operation for debulking, the operation went very in removing a big section of the tumour but left him bed bound and no quality off life. Dad wasn't able to receive no further treatment and spent the following 5 months in a hospital bed In his living room. 

Dad changed over the weeks, he lost his memory. Lost the ability of doing things like telling them time, reading. Everything was taken away from him.  
In the last few weeks dad was mentally agitated and went into a hospice, he was there for 3 weeks where he sadly passed away, and fought right until the end. 
Thoughout the 6 months, we had very little support, no awareness of what to expect and everything was a constant battles to get support needed for my mum and dad.

  • Hello JCJ and a warm welcome to Cancer Chat, 

    I am so sorry to hear your dad has recently passed away with stage 4 GBM. Sincere condolences to you and your family - our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. 

    The last six months seem to have been truly horrendous for you and I hope that there will be progress made in the future in research into this dreadful illness. It's really sad that the operation left him bed bound and with no quality of life and that he had to spend the next five months in a hospital bed in his living room. Reading the story of the progression of your dad's illness is deeply moving. Your poor dad really fought until the end and I am so sorry to hear that you had such little support throughout the six months. 

    It must be really hard for you to process everything that's happened and it's bound to have left you and your family deeply marked. I hope that your mum is doing OK. There is information on our website on Coping with Grief which may be useful to you or anyone in your family who is currently finding it really hard to cope. I just wanted you to know we are there for you and I hope that you will hear from other members of our community who have also been affected by GBM and that they will come and share their experience with you.

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Hi so sorry to hear about your dad. 
    my 51 year old brother passed in July from gbm, after a 14 month battle, I agree a cruel illness with little funding and just standard treatment which doesn't work.

    My brother passed at home as his wish after a rapid ten week decline, he suffered swelling, headaches, pain , loss of mobility down left side, bed bound, he was unconscious for last 3/4 days as he gasped for breath, it was dreadful to see and broke our hearts we miss him so much. 
    stsy strong and hold on to happy memories and be strong for your mum too , all the best.