How to cope with a family member having cancer?

My nan was diagnosed with a rare form of blood cancer in her central nervous system (I can't remember the name of it) at the start of the year. Although surgery and treatment went well, she's now starting to decline and the doctor's have told us that this is signalling the beginning of the end for her. In short, she's dying.

How do I cope? I'm really close to my nan and just the thought of losing her tears me apart. What are some good ways to get through this?

  • Welcome to Cancer Chat Jcb9475 although I'm really sorry that your nan is starting to decline.

    I can't begin to imagine how difficult this must be for you right now but our community are here for you. I'm sure some of our members will be along soon to offer your their support and advice but whilst you wait I hope this information we have for family, friends and caregivers as well as this article on anticipatory grief will help. 

    We have a very supportive and understanding team of cancer nurses available on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m. if you'd like to talk things through with them as well.

    I know this time will be tough but if you can, try to concentrate on the time you have left with your nan and make as many precious and happy memories as possible.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator