Help Its happening

Mum was diagnosed in october with lung cancer..she had tumours removed and we thought everything was fine. At christmas she stopped being able to walk and we found out the cancer had spread to her hip. They olerated and inserted something to strengthen it but she could no longer walk or even stand. She was bedbound from december to february and following the op still bedbound. She had radiotherapy and was transferred to marie curie temporarily having physio etc. 3 weeks ago she was sent homr and we were told there was nothing more they could do and that the cancer had spread to various areas ..they said she had short months or weeks remaining...she had begun to sleep alot more...her bone is pushing out of her hip as the csncer grows  she has stage 4 bedsore on sacrum...they say she had short weeks left ...they even said anytime now...i dont know what to do to make the most of our time.shr csnt get up and cries 24 7...crying because she will never walk agaun..how do i make her moments happier....how do i make sure i dont regret this time..please:cry::cry::cry::cry::cry: heartbroken for her and for all of us

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  • Hello Hannah,

    So sorry for this terrible time you are going through.  Just be there for your mum, hold her hand, tell her how much you Love her, talk about all of the special memories you and she have together, all of the good times you have shared, and afterwards you will know that you gave everything you could when she was about to go on her final journey.  xx

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  • Hello Hannah,

    So sorry for this terrible time you are going through.  Just be there for your mum, hold her hand, tell her how much you Love her, talk about all of the special memories you and she have together, all of the good times you have shared, and afterwards you will know that you gave everything you could when she was about to go on her final journey.  xx

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