Hello MollyRedSkirts

I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling with things at the moment. It's understandably a difficult time for you right now and I know that we've members here who will understand this. Hopefully, they will post to share their advice and experiences with you soon. 

It's really common to find it difficult to talk to friends and loved ones about your diagnosis and treatment. You may feel that you don't want to risk upsetting or worrying them or you may be afraid of becoming upset yourself. In turn, I'm sure that they may be concerned about saying the wrong thing and want to try and boost your mood by perhaps being overly positive. It can be hard to sit and have that conversation with them but if you're able to be open and honest with them then you may find in turn that they can do the same and better give you the support that you need. If talking is too hard at the moment then perhaps writing a letter to one or two people that you're closest to maybe a way to open up that dialogue. 

we do have some information on our website about coping emotionally with cancer that may be useful to you, or indeed your loved ones, but I also wanted to let you know that we have a team of nurses that you can call to speak with. Sometimes it can help to talk to someone who isn't directly connected with our situations and I wonder if you might find it helpful to chat with our nurses. If you'd like to speak with them they're available Monday to Friday 9 am to 5 pm on 0808 800 4040. 

Keep in touch MollyRedSkirts. I hope that the therapy goes smoothly for you. Let us know how you're doing and we'll do our best to support you. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator