Hi Everyone. Soooooooo this is my first attempt to reach out. I have been diagnosed with breast cancer which has spread to my lymph nodes and parts of my bones (spine, sternum and left arm). Its HER2 positive. I am 30 years of age and i have 2 young children. I have a treatment plan in place. I still cant get past the fact that i am not curable......i am completely heartbroken by this all. It sounds selfish but i feel like the only one in the world this is happening to.....i hope you can understand this statement. I have connected with friends and family who have had breast cancer and they were the the lucky ones as it didnt spread.........is there anywhere here with similar diagnoses?