Melanoma

Hey, I got told last month that I had a mole removed that was in fact melanoma, I have an appointment on April 10th for an initial appointment to discuss and be told ill be having the wle and lymph node biopsy, I'm 25 and I feel there's so much going on, I have a 3 year old, I have a mother who's also got pulmonary fibrosis (lung disease), living in supported housing but needing to find somewhere else bc they're not doing the repairs they need to, mum/brother/sister are all down south while me and little sister are up north, I have a boyfriend who i have support from but I just feel alone and scared of being put to sleep, I've have a really bad 3 to 4 years prior due to being with my daughters dad who was always cheating and got abusive, mentally and physically, just unsure who to turn too, no one quite understands the cancer scare 

  • Welcome to Cancer Chat, Helslclofoeekd,

    I’m sorry to hear what you're going through right now. It sounds like you're managing so much at once, and it’s completely understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed and scared. Having to face the uncertainties of cancer while balancing everything else in your life must be incredibly tough.
    It’s great that you have your boyfriend’s support during this time, but I can imagine it still feels isolating when no one quite understands what you’re going through.
    The other thing I wanted to mention is that there’s information on coping with cancer and also on mental health and cancer, which may offer some guidance as you navigate this time.
    You’re not alone in this, and many others on the forum are here to offer support and understanding. If you ever need someone to speak with, our team of nurses is also available to talk with you. You can reach them on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday, 9am to 5pm.
    Please know we’re here for you, and I hope your appointment on April 10th brings you some clarity and reassurance.
    Take care,
    Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator