Im 43 and I’ve just been diagnosed with her2 positive er positive invasive breast cancer. There’s a confirmed lump 13mm and I’m awaiting mri results as there’s another larger area of concern that showed on a CEM. No sign of lymph node involvement as of yet even though my under arm aches. The discussions have changed so many times about treatments - first they said probably surgery then Chemo. Today the nurse said chemo might come first. I’m so confused- it’s making me ache with anxiety. My hands hurt so bad. Has anyone else experienced anything similar? What treatment did you have and in which order- I’m keen for a mastectomy and reconstruction.