Survivor of childhood cancer, anyone else?

Hello,

I am a survivor of a rare form of rhabdomyosarcoma that was formed in the tissue of the vagina. I was diagnosed between the ages of 2-7years old. After major surgery, radiotherapy and chemotherapy I beat it. I am happy to say still 20 years on I am a healthy and happy young adult.

However given the nature of the cancer I survived I struggle to talk about it, and has held me back from venturing into relationships as I am worried how someone may look at me or react when I tell them my circumstances.

I was wondering if anyone else who is a survivor of childhood cancer could give advice on having the 'C' talk with partners, or navigating the world of relationships?

Also open to providing and reaching out to other childhood cancer survivors to give support.

Best,

E

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  • Hi, I had a rare cancer on my thigh at 5 years old and got it again at 7 in my groin. I am now 48 years old but the treatment I received has caused lots of issues with my health and I am not able to carry children ( I have tried and lost 3 children late in pregnancy) i also had to have all of my muscle removed from my thigh when I had the tumour removed so I am left with a very disfigured thigh. I manage day to day by only wearing knee length dresses and skits, no trousers at all as my thigh is half the size of my other.i have been married and had other relationships, I find being honest and upfront is key as if they don't love all of you as your are, then they don't deserve you. Be proud of what you have survived x 

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  • Hi, I had a rare cancer on my thigh at 5 years old and got it again at 7 in my groin. I am now 48 years old but the treatment I received has caused lots of issues with my health and I am not able to carry children ( I have tried and lost 3 children late in pregnancy) i also had to have all of my muscle removed from my thigh when I had the tumour removed so I am left with a very disfigured thigh. I manage day to day by only wearing knee length dresses and skits, no trousers at all as my thigh is half the size of my other.i have been married and had other relationships, I find being honest and upfront is key as if they don't love all of you as your are, then they don't deserve you. Be proud of what you have survived x 

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